My Daughter-In-Law Changed
(Minghui.org) My behavior and health improved after I began to practice Falun Dafa. There are no words to express my gratitude.
I was suffering with pelvic pain, leg pain, headaches, and tinnitus. But soon after I began cultivating, my illnesses completely disappeared and I became energetic.
I followed Dafa's principles of Truthfulness-Compassion-Forbearance.
Dafa changed my way of thinking. I was able to eliminate my selfish behavior and become a good person. I learned to consider others and how they felt. I looked within every time I had a conflict.
After my parents died I offered to give my brother and sister a larger part of the inheritance. My brother said, “You spent much more time and energy taking care of them. You should receive more.” I said, “I am a Falun Dafa practitioner and I consider others first. This is what we are taught.”
My Daughter-In-Law's Change
I used to think my daughter-in-law was spoiled. She appeared lazy and didn't keep the house clean. I looked down on her. She spent too much money, and wasted food. I didn't like to visit my son's home, and furthermore, my daughter-in-law did not care about me and never came to visit.
After I began practicing Falun Dafa, I knew that all conflicts had reasons and were connected to my cultivation. After looking within, as Master teaches us to do, I understood that I was not being compassionate, and not considering her feelings. Her parents divorced when she was a small child, so perhaps I needed to be more motherly.
I began to visit her, bringing food. We ate and chatted pleasantly many times, while I shared my understanding on my cultivation. I also shared with her about traditional culture and why it was not good to waste food. After dining I helped her with house work.
My behavior touched her and she began to visit me. Over time she brought me a duvet, an air conditioner, and some furniture. Sometimes she also cleaned my house. One day while visiting, she washed my feet. She had changed, and I was touched to the point of tears.
She told me that several days ago, she made a purchase and was given too much change by the vendor. When she realized it, she returned the money. I praised her. She was happy that she pleased me, and laughed. My daughter-in-law supports my Dafa practice and has helped me with some of my Dafa work. She changed because of the power of Dafa.