Because of Falun Dafa, I Have a Beautiful New Life
(Minghui.org) After my son was born, I couldn’t turn over due to lower back pain, and sometimes I was bedridden due to the pain. Then, in a dream, I saw a doctor dressed in a surgical gown inject something into my lower back, and I no longer felt any pain.
I was pregnant but had a miscarriage in 2001. I was in bed for 25 days and could not fall asleep the entire night. I couldn't sit up and I couldn't breathe. I called on Master Li, the founder of Falun Dafa, “Master, please help! I can't breathe!” I heard Master say, “You will be fine from now on.” It was 3:40 a.m. when I fell asleep. I will never forget that day.
My Son Helped Me Cultivate
When I was studying the Fa with another practitioner, I saw with my celestial eye my son standing opposite me, covered with eyes all over his body.
My son was quiet and rarely spoke. But he once said to me, “Do you know why Master arranged for me to stay at home? You always blame others but no one dares to blame you.
“Thinking about it, no practitioner has ever criticized you for anything. Who dares to find fault with you? Master arranged for me to take care of you. Don't wait until other practitioners consummate and only you are left behind, sitting there, crying!” I was amazed that he would say all that.
When I cooked two time-consuming dishes, my husband asked, “Son, is it delicious?” My son replied, “It's horrible. This food is only fit for pigs.” This upset me and I said, “I went to so much trouble, how can you say that?” My son smiled and said, “Haha! You didn’t pass the test!”
Then, when my mother-in-law and I were making steamed dumplings, my husband said, “Why are you making dumplings again? I've told you many times that the wrap of the dumpling is as thick as the sole of the shoe. I don’t like it.” I got angry and made a nasty response. When my son heard that, he laughed.
I realized that I hadn't passed another test. After that, I made sure not to get angry, but to cultivate, and gradually I have improved.
Then, I truly maintained my xinxing when my husband scolded me about another meal. After that, he no longer criticized what I fixed us to eat.
Predestined Relationship Problems Resolved
My husband’s parents lived in the countryside. My husband and his brother worked in the city, and his three sisters worked on the farm in their hometown. I didn't take care of anything for his parents before I learned Dafa and thought that I had nothing to do with his family. If he hadn’t gone to college and worked in the city, I wouldn’t have married him. I also held grievances against my husband's family.
After I started to cultivate in 1998, I understood that there is a reason behind every situation. I let go of my grievances and started to be more considerate of my husband and his parents.
After my father-in-law passed away, I agreed to pay for the funeral. Everyone was surprised to hear that and was the source of many discussions in our area. They thought that a Dafa practitioner was really great.
After the death of my father-in-law, my mother-in-law gave the house, the land, and the mountain to her daughters. But nobody wanted to take care of her, so I invited her to stay with us for the rest of her life. Although she had no pension and no income, I decided that I would take care of her.
She was very picky and caused me a lot of problems when she first came to live with us. I felt bad. I had thought that my cultivation was solid, but that made me realize I still had a long way to go.
Once I saw her sitting on the sofa and asked her to take a walk, get some exercise, or sweep the floor. She picked up the broom and swept here and there. Then she threw the broom down and told me that she was not my cleaning lady. I knew that this was a test for me and made a conscious effort to remain calm.
Family Benefits from Dafa
Master said, “...with one person practicing, the whole family benefits..." (Teaching the Fa at the Fa Conference in Australia)
I have two aunts, one is 80 and the other is 76. When one aunt came to visit us, I told her the facts about Dafa. She recovered from heart disease that day.
The relationship between my other aunt, her daughter-in-law, and her granddaughter-in-law was not good. However, after I clarified the truth about Dafa to them, about good and evil and about karmic relationships, they understood, and both decided to practice Dafa. The family conflicts were resolved.
My mother-in-law used to eat only two meals a day. After she came to live with us, she demanded three meals a day, because she loved tasty food and meat.
She said, “You not only treat me very well, you treat everyone nicely.” She recites, “Falun Dafa is good! Truthfulness-Compassion-Forbearance is great!” every day.
She also studies the Fa with me every day. It was difficult for her to read even the big characters at first, but now she can read the small version of Zhuan Falun.
School Principal: “I hope everyone learns from you.”
During the school appraisal, everyone racked their brains trying to figure out how to be promoted. Twenty-eight people were being considered for only five places; it was very competitive. When I decided not to participate, the principal said, “I hope everyone learns from you ”
After I talked about Dafa in class, I was reported to the police department. The director asked the principal and secretary of the school to punish me.
We had a meeting, and I clarified the truth to them and told them about the changes I experienced in my mind and body after I started to practice Falun Dafa. Eventually everyone understood and knew that Falun Dafa did not violate any law.
They asked me to write a letter explaining the facts, and the principal submitted it to the police director. I also gave the principal the book Zhuan Falun and a big Falun Dafa calendar. He read Zhuan Falun.
I clarified the truth to the administrators in the school and encouraged them to quit the Chinese Communist Party (CCP). I was promoted to be the supervisor of the academic affairs department because the leaders trusted me.