(Minghui.org) One day after the Lantern Festival, in January of this year, my daughter-in-law came upstairs after tidying up the small shop she was running, and the two of us started chatting. She told me that what worried my son most in the early years of their marriage was that she and I wouldn't get along. I told her that Dafa changed me. She said, “Yes, I'm very grateful to Dafa!”
Falun Dafa Changed Me, and I Accepted My Daughter-in-law
My son met her and brought her home to meet me over ten years ago. I learned that there were four people in her family and none of them had a regular job. They all did casual work here and there. Although I had already started practicing Falun Dafa, I didn't understand much about cultivation at the time. I thought she was no match for my son, and strongly opposed their relationship. I even lost my temper and got very angry with him.
Before I began practicing Dafa, I was a very harsh person and often swore and hit others. My husband and son were both afraid of me. Later, when my son was getting married, my niece asked me, “You're such a stubborn person. How did you change your mind so quickly?” I said, “Dafa has changed me and I've learned to think of others.”
After their marriage, I conducted myself strictly, according to the principles of Truthfulness-Compassion-Forbearance, and focused on improving my xinxing. I was considerate of them and supported them financially. My daughter-in-law was very grateful. I told her about Dafa and she quickly learned the truth and quit the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) organizations. I could see that she had a predestined relationship with Dafa, but I had almost rejected her.
My Entire Family Knows that Falun Dafa Is Good
Our grandson is now seven years old. We help take care of him so that my son and daughter-in-law can focus on their work and business. We are also diligent in our cultivation of course. Our grandson is a very good boy. He can recite many Dafa poems, has read the book Zhuan Falun , and can recite Lunyu . He also understands how to conduct himself according to the Fa principles. When his classmates hit or swear at him, he never hits back. He says, “I must watch my xinxing.” My daughter-in-law often says that she is very happy and very grateful.
A few days ago, we invited many relatives to our home for dinner. My daughter-in-law raised her glass and said, “Thank you, Dafa, for giving me such wonderful parents-in-law and such a happy family!” My niece also said, “Aunty, you and uncle are in such good health. You have Dafa to protect you.” We all said loudly together, “Falun Dafa is good!”
I remember that during the 2011 New Year, I had been illegally arrested, and was being held in a detention center. My daughter-in-law took care of my husband, her son, and my younger son. She was very concerned about my safety and showed great understanding. She said, “The Party can't change one's beliefs.” She has always been very supportive of Dafa, and often uses bank notes that have truth-clarification messages written on them.
Falun Dafa Has Miraculous Healing Power
One day in 2012, my daughter-in-law had severe pain in her abdomen. The doctor said it was endometriosis, and if it wasn't treated early she would need to have her uterus removed. She took a lot of Chinese medicine, but nothing worked. One day, I showed her the Shen Yun Performing Arts DVD. She was moved to tears by the graceful dances and touching stories. Without realizing it was happening, the pain in her abdomen disappeared and her illness was gone.
Falun Dafa is miraculous. As long as you have faith in Dafa, you will be blessed. I feel that my family members are the happiest people in the world because we have our Master to look after us. It has been over ten years since I started practicing Dafa and all my illnesses, including severe angina, and cardiovascular and cerebrovascular disease, have disappeared.
My husband also started practicing Falun Dafa after he retired. He doesn't have much education or know many characters, but he can read Zhuan Falun . His family has a history of high blood pressure and heart disease, and all his siblings have high blood pressure. In 2009, my husband suddenly showed symptoms of an oncoming stroke. Within minutes he lost the ability to walk, and collapsed. The doctor said it was a stroke and that his life was in danger. I whispered in my husband's ear, “Remember 'Falun Dafa is good'.” He nodded his head.
Three days later, he was able to move his arms and legs, and within a week, he was able to sit up and eat. Twenty days later, he recovered and returned home.
I asked my husband, “What do you want to add in this sharing?” He said loudly, “Falun Dafa is good!”
