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Helping My Husband and His Mistress to Mend Their Ways

October 17, 2013 |   By a Dafa disciple in Shandong Province

(Minghui.org) Before I started practicing Falun Dafa, I was very angry at my husband for his infidelity. I even tried to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills. Thankfully, I survived after being treated at the hospital.

My Path of Cultivation

I began practicing Falun Dafa in February 1999. At that time, I only did the Falun Dafa exercises and listened to the Fa lectures because I didn't know how to read. When the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) began its persecution of Falun Gong in July 1999, I didn't know what to do.

I decided to continue practicing on my own. Many times when I did the seated meditation, I saw in other dimensions the book, Zhuan Falun, floating in the air and landing on my legs. The pages would flip by themselves for me. I realized that Zhuan Falun was a book from the Heavens and that Master was encouraging me to to study the Fa more.

I made up my mind to learn how to read the book and asked my family to help me with the Chinese characters. Several days later, I was finally able to read the entire book by myself.

I had been cultivating by myself since the persecution of Falun Dafa began in 1999. Six months ago, a fellow practitioner moved into my neighborhood and we began to study the Fa together. She was very surprised to learn that I have only been reading Zhuan Falun all this time. She then taught me how to read Essentials for Further Advancement .

When I saw her diligence in cultivation, I regretted that I had wasted so much time, so I began to study the Fa more. Master then opened up my wisdom. I have now read all of Master's recent lectures. Thank you, Master!

Helping My Husband's Mistress Understand the Truth

Since I began practicing Falun Dafa, I understand many principles in life and strictly follow the principles of Truthfulness-Compassion-Forbearance.

An idea came to me last year, “I should clarify the truth to my husband's mistress.” She suddenly called me on March 25, 2013, and said she wanted to see me. I knew she was coming to learn the truth of Falun Dafa.

That day, she began to cry immediately after coming inside my house. She said that she was having difficulty at work, fighting with others and her colleagues were talking behind her back. She was also sentenced to a year of probation and fined 10,000 yuan.

Listening to her, my compassion emerged. I told her, “Don't cry. All of these things are caused by the karma you owe. Things will improve if you pay attention to being virtuous and do more good deeds.”

I also told her about the facts of the persecution, the importance of quitting the CCP and its affiliated organizations, and that it is a sin to get involved with a married man as that isn't allowed by the Heavens. I said, “The divine will see your improvement if you know the facts of the persecution and correct your wrongdoings.”

She was in tears and hugged me after I finished talking to her. She said, “Thank you for sharing with me your thoughts and for forgiving me. Falun Gong practitioners are very good! I will quit the communist youth league. Thank you for turning my karma into a benevolent predestined relationship.” I replied, “Thank my Master. My Master is the one guiding us to do so.”

My husband witnessed my kindness towards his mistress and his mother. He now admires Dafa. Now both my husband and his mistress have repented of their wrongdoing, and our family is happy and harmonious again.

Thank you, Master.